Cheryl Grimaldi
What No One Tells You About Starting a New Job
Starting a new job can be so much more than we give it credit for. Your subconscious is working overtime to learn everything — not just the work itself, but the small, everyday details that make up your new rhythm.
It’s why we always tell our candidates: when you’re starting a new role, don’t take on anything else big. This isn’t the week to move houses, clean closets, or start a new diet. Give yourself permission to focus completely on learning and adjusting. That’s where growth happens.
A Smart Check-In Strategy
At the end of your first week — and again a couple of weeks later — ask your manager for a quick five-minute check-in.
“Do you have a few minutes? I’d love your thoughts on what’s going well and what I can improve.”
Bring a notebook, take notes, and show you’re listening.
It communicates humility, curiosity, and accountability — three traits that build trust faster than anything else.
Set the Tone
During your early weeks:
• Arrive early, stay a little late. It shows dedication.
• Dress for the role you want. Even in casual offices, polish communicates respect for yourself and your team.
• Avoid your phone during work hours. Stay fully present.
• Take notes. Start building what we call your Desk Manual — a record of key contacts, processes, and workflows that make you indispensable.
Final Thought
Starting a new position is one of life’s great transitions — exciting, humbling, and full of opportunity if you give yourself the grace to truly settle in.
At Tangent West, we don’t just place people — we partner with you through every step of the journey.